Yesterday (5.3.21) I sat down with the girls and had a talk. I basically shared where I am (physically exhausted and unable to do some normal activities, emotionally tired, needing lots of rest and time to sit, etc.). I reassured them this was a temporary state but I admitted that life would be a little different for a couple weeks until baby Spencer comes and Daddy + other family members are around to help out and keep their life flowing normally.
They were darlings and nodded while vocalizing they understood. I also shared that they were going to start helping me out around the house to bless our home more.
Disclaimer: there are already a few things they help out with, but to be honest, I do way more than I should. Below is a list of what they'll be helping with / taking on, but some of it they already do.
Home Blessings (toddler edition):
- help set & clear the table for every meal
- put toys & books away
- put dirty laundry in hamper
- put personal clean clothes away
- clean up spills
- help unload dishwasher
- bring items in from the car
- help put groceries away