spencer has rsv

On Saturday (6.26.21) he started coughing. It was deep, loud and sounded rough. By Sunday (6.27.21) evening, we couldn’t ignore it. It was raspy, long & he seemed to struggle to catch his breath at times. It sounded painful.

My other flag was my amazing eater had become less than interested in nursing, so I called the doctor first thing Monday (6.28.21) morning and made an appointment. Because he’s so little, Aaron and I didn’t want to be in the dark.

After an hour at the doctor’s office and a couple tests, Spencer was diagnosed with RSV – which was described to me as an extreme cold that mainly targets lungs. Although it’s not an uncommon virus and older kids (toddlers+) can get it without even knowing that’s what they have, the fact that Spencer is only 4weeks old forces us to be extra aware of any changes that occur.

RSV takes a week or two to fully run its course & I was told it will likely get worse before it gets better. It’s possible he’ll get a more intense cough + an ear infection before it passes.

I’m told to watch for his breathing (to make sure it doesn’t get worse – the doctor told me what to look for) and a fever of 101 or higher (which would likely mean an ear infection). The doctor said he unfortunately thinks we’ll be back in before this is over with potential need to treat his ear infection &, if his breathing gets worse, he’ll need breathing treatments.

Overall, the doctor says Spencer will be okay, we just have to keep an eye on him to make sure it doesn’t get worse. Babies as young as him have been hospitalized because of this before.

To be honest, my emotions go back and forth. Spencer is strong and a warrior – I have no doubt he’ll come out of this healthier and perfectly fine. But I would be lying if I didn’t say my anxiety peaks at times and fear wants to take over. Thankfully, I know God loves Spencer more than me, and I find comfort knowing that our son has a fierce calling on his life that will carry him well into his adult years. RSV can’t stop this kid!

Right now, we’re praying heavily over Spencer and his health. We’re believing this is the worst it’ll get and no other harm or discomfort will come to him.

Thank you for partnering with us in this. Although it may seem small, we definitely don’t want it to lead to anything more serious (like a hospital stay).